Chapter eleven

On Toleration by Avedis Panajianwho also wrote a brief remembrance of James Grotstein
Avedis grew up in Lebanon .

Grotstein gave a primordial importance on Second Thoughts or Second Opinion , the way Bion called the process of analytic supervision . Working in the psychoanalytic field without taking into consideration, to experience and to highly respect  these concepts in practice and theory come close to what Melanie Klein called criminality .

Or what Melanie Klein called early states of a cruel superyo superego.

Second opinion is needed when time and space are not sufficient as to guarantee to be at the first line of the psychic events  or war. (29.10.2017)
Becoming means the encountering with pathologies never  seen before as patients are treated who never had contact with psychoanslysis -

So how can responsibilities be assigned without tolerance ?

A person who has spent 20 years in analytic field analysis comes closer to be a person under supervision and company than under analysis , the same for the partner who has 10 years in these conditions . The problem begins when the analyst in morse feels the need to analyze . Having been asked to do so or not . To supervise or to give a second opinion as choice is a matter of respect .
Another  topic is the analytic function and Ur as Tendencies in psychoanalytic field groups of groups in which blindness to the possibility that one may be wrong is high .
We all approach to what it means to be blind .

In Effects of becoming applies  the same : if there is no respect and toleration only legal path are useful and very necessary . As not to become the play ball of eager newcomers who feel the eager need to "analyze ".( Magnum,85 and other stupidities in action )

Contrary to Avedis who states having lived the  beauty and love Mediterranean he also experienced deep melancoly expressed in wearing long years only black style depression and loss on the other .

The most important and generous side of Dr. Grotstein was his immense respect on the other 's condition .His generosity to Acept the other in his or her condition and to help to find an own path to go . The rest are viscicitudes of anonymous acting outs in the field who play out needs and pathologies .

He discriminated between tools , informatic tools and others 29.10.2017 does not focus on tools , as grieve , as images and others . I am grateful on between all , to have received tools to meet the river.
Accepting the others group experience part of the respect demanded .
" I will write a book about Bion and then about groups" quote Grotstein 2002. I suppose his passing will not avoid the publication on groups .
Sor ' s complaining at the 2008 Bion congress in Rome on Elizabeth Bianchedi